I’ve found forgiveness is key to healing of every kind. Forgiving ourselves comes first.
The chakra in the center of our chest is the spiritual heart and is the Center of our Being where we give and receive love; it is where the alchemy of energetic transmutation takes place.
I’ve found that forgiveness is part of every deep healing; it involves telling the offending people in the sanctity of your deep heart “I completely release you and wish the highest and best for you”… but, you must really mean and feel it, which guidance can facilitate. In no way are you condoning what they did that was wrong or hurt you.
Shame and self-loathing is part of having been abused; especially as a child. In childhood we turn such things against ourselves, even though it was no fault of our own. These form a living energy inside our bodies and psyches that can sabotage us in myriad ways; they need the light of awareness shown upon them.
Fortunately, these undesirable energies have their own consciousness, and with help, can easily be channeled. It may sound esoteric, but this can be done by most any of my clients. The energy will reveal itself and its origin, and with skill, can be readily discharged into its perfect expression in the Light of the Divine. Then, a bit of homework doing the process that freed it will allow Divine Light to stay and reside in its place. The heart can then be your source of guidance and your own oracle.
After becoming clear, you can perform this release on the spot, whenever you’re offended (spoken to rudely, misunderstood, cut off in traffic), and stay very clear. It is a practice, and you must own your anger with impeccability to release it.
It’s a beautiful teaching, and when forgiveness is done through a guided deep state of inner awareness, a technique I call “The Conference Room”, it can be amazingly sanctified and effective. The parents, relatives, and other people who hurt you are there, in the higher dimensional realm with us, and if they have dropped their body, it’s even easier, as their consciousness has had their life review and usually gained insight.
Pure grace can be extracted from the divine light coming into the crown chakra at this point and is like a healing balm of sacred energy used to enable the forgiveness of the seemingly unforgivable. This is the final healing phase. It comes after inner child reconnection and regaining the pristine ‘magical inner child’ awareness, and release of traumatic energies held within the entire being (physical and subtle bodies) through various fully conscious intuitive techniques.
After that, re-cognizing the higher chakras can be done, and if it is your time, grace may illuminate the simple, clear path to Self-realization.
I’m happy to answer your questions regarding ‘forgiving the unforgivable’ and any other issues addressed here. Just contact me.
Andrew M. Williams, Certified Advanced Energy Healer